Posts by Murray Oxman

Individuality

I love this excerpt from Murray Oxman’s insightful best seller, How to Read People Like a Book: Individuality: Once upon a time there was a flock of sheep grazing on a beautiful hillside of dark green grass in Utah. One fine day one of the newly matured male sheep looked about and noticed that all…

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Hold to the Straight Line

Hold to the Straight Line by Murray Oxman from How to Tune Up Your Life Here is a Great tool to keep you on the upward path. The world has so so many distractions. People have lost their ‘sensing’ that they should be climbing and not settling into the same boring existence by believing they…

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Relationship Magic

Relationship Magic This is an excerpt from the very insightful book, Secrets of Truly Beautiful Relationships, by Murray Oxman. “Dr. Truth, you spoke earlier of the pain that all of us experience in our daily lives. You said that it is born out of knowing what you want in life and trying to get it.…

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Getting Stressed Out?

You Can Have a Nice Life Anytime You Want It (from Murray Oxman’s How to Beat the Stress and Get More Out of Life ~ http://successwithoutstress.us/product/how-to-beat-the-stress-and-get-more-out-of-life/) Most people like their lives the way they are.  And part of it is, they like to feel bad, they like to get angry, they like to get negative,…

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Interest

Great psychological essays are most often written to convey an important life message.  But  it is always the responsibility of the reader to apply the ideas for the deepest meaning to take root.  Murray Oxman had a profound ability to see things clearly and write about them in easily understandable language.  From his perceptive book,…

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Not-Doing

  Not-Doing (an excerpt from Murray Oxman’s handbook, How to Tune Up Your Life) Tool 7 — Not-Doing:  This is a really interesting and rewarding tool.  It’s all about the power of not-doing.  Compared to not-doing, doing is easy.  Whether we’re aware of it or not, we all are creatures of habit.  We basically have…

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A New Approach

Murray Oxman had and amazing way of conveying facts which can be very difficult to accept and apply to oneself.  We are so used to blaming others for our problems —  and this is the very reason our problems continue.  Here is an excerpt from Mr Oxman’s “How to Beat the Stress and Get More Out…

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Refuse to Feel Bad

Refuse to Feel Bad Life really does become fun again when we follow these powerful principles!  Murray Oxman explains exactly what to do in his encouraging book, “How to Tune Up Your Life”.  Here is an excerpt: Tool 13 —  Refuse to Feel Bad:  Real lasting happiness and comfort do exist.  Where are they?  Why…

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A Secret that Never Fails

A Secret that Never Fails to Work by Murray Oxman “At one time or another, when reflecting on our lives, we’ve all had the inkling that there’s something missing – something not quite right here.  The reason all doesn’t seem well is – it isn’t.  Our usual reaction is to go about searching for something…

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Conquering Stress

CONQUERING STRESS The more you know about yourself – your inner-workings – the more you know about others and how to interact with them and how ‘not’ to interact with them.   This makes for smooth and easy relations whether at work, home or play. In his handbook How to Beat the Stress and Get More…

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Win While Losing (audio)

The following is an excerpt from Murray Oxman’s book, How to Tune Up Your Life: Tool 9 — Win While Losing: This is truly one of the most wondrous and important tools you could ever undertake. It’s all about letting everyone else win. We all love to straighten other people out — tell them what…

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Attract The Light

If I go out to my garden and plant a tiny tomato seed, that seed, if I take care of it and protect it, will grow into a huge plant that will produce abundant fruit. It will become something very different than that mere tiny seed that I started with. It’s the same with self-discovery…

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