You are Getting Exactly What You Want!

by | Nov 29, 2025 | Personal Insights

“You are Getting Exactly What You Want!”

Wherever you may find yourself in life, this is what you have asked for: a rocky marriage, a lack of money, or working a dead-end job? Vernon Howard’s ideas of self-observation and becoming aware of inner movements will do the work of guiding you to your full potential. To put it simply, you can move psychologically. You don’t have to remain or live with any unhappy condition, and you don’t have to struggle to keep your life above water. Vernon Howard’s struggle-free life is real and for the taking.

When you see clearly that you feel the need for inner change, and also see that not all parts of you want to change, and you go anyway, you are on the royal highway. The royal highway is a unique inner place, learning about the smallest and the largest reasons for your actions. You don’t torture yourself over any of your blunders. Putting understanding before keeping your self-images. You realize all those negativities that arise come from the dungeon, and so you let them go.

Life is fair. If you decide to stay on your present course, then I wish you good luck. If you decide to investigate further, you are on the adventure of a lifetime, and I won’t have to wish you good luck because you will become good luck. Your life will change in ways you cannot imagine. Problems disappear because you will disappear as a problem keeper.

A problem arises with another human being. Instead of focusing on what they did wrong, you decide to work on yourself. Your attention switches to asking, What did I do wrong? Vernon calls this backtracking. With hard, persistent work, you will discover where you went wrong. You will begin to say your good-byes to your sadness.

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  1. In the cosmic sense, the whole, you do not exist as a separate entity. Believing this separateness as true, which it is not, you make more mistakes in believing more false information about yourself. Vernon Howard’s teachings are a great interrupter in your daily thinking. You consult yourself and say that your life is not that bad, but you also hate your life as it now unfolds. You seek peace, but get confusion, and then you seek to change that, which puts you further down the wrong road of believing you can solve that problem. The problem continues to grow larger, so large that you fear to turn and look at it. So each day the problem becomes bigger. When you have a planet of 7 billion plus people thinking incorrectly, you have confusion, conflicts, and wars. You get a planet with all of Earth’s problems. But there is a solution, a grand solution; only an individual can see this mistake clearly, and make corrections to it. The mistake is the false belief that you are separate from the whole. We just made a short full circle, which your present confused mind rejects. Give up that confused mind, and you will find peace.

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