“We see that we cannot behave unlovingly towards others without paying the price in psychic disturbance.” -Vernon Howard.

Those days are gone when you would justify our behavior by saying to ourselves, “I’m doing it to them for their own good.” It really is quite remarkable when you realize you are the one who is punished. Like giving someone the “Silent treatment,” it is you who is burdened, not the other. In fact, they might even like you being quiet for a while. Seeing how a twisted psychology works frees you from trying to prove you are right when it is so unnecessary. We sure can act silly at times. These are all healthy discoveries to make. Discoveries that lighten your load. Life is messy enough without me adding to that messiness. We slowly learn how to be on the right side of life. We help ourselves.

Life is a boomerang! You get back what you give out.