Once you make the decision to leave the old you also, at that same moment, make the decision to find the new. So waste no more time, pack up and leave your old thoughts, your old reactions, all of your old ways behind. Now entertain the beautiful Truth that another world exists right at this moment and is waiting for your discovery. In Murray Oxman’s Beat the Stress handbook, Chapter 2. “A New Way to Approach Problems” writes about what ‘you’ are not. He writes about being responsible in ways you might never have heard about. Very helpful. Reading about higher ideas, working with self-enlightening exercises, and hearing true teachers speak, all work for you in discovering the newness to a New Life.